One summer during college, I sold $10,000 worth of knives. It was kinda crazy. When I started selling knives, it was to my family and friends – sorry, you guys! – but eventually, through their referrals, I took my knives to complete strangers’ homes, gave them demonstrations and tried selling knife sets to them. Can you imagine inviting a complete stranger to your home who is packing a bunch of knives? (Ok, even if that stranger is pretty innocuous, like me at age 19?)
Everyone was impressed when the Cutco knife cut through a thick rope with one smooth swipe, when their own weak steak knives were sawing away, reducing the rope to shreds. Everyone was impressed when I cut a penny into one long spiral with the Cutco kitchen shears. That is cool, but not cool enough for a lot of people to reach into their checkbooks. I walked away many times having driven to some far-flung suburb without orders for even a single knife.
I had to get through hearing no after no – or getting the phone hung up on me – to even get an appointment just to show someone the knives. I mean, who really is in the market for knives? Who is willing to drop $500 on a new set of knives?
These folks exist, but you have to find them.
Selling door-to-door is something I’ll never want to do again. It’s really rough, lonely, and in this case, certainly soul-deprecating work. But I’m glad that I tried it because I learned the power of persistence. The more people I called, the more appointments I got, and the more knives I sold. It held true week after week.
I heard no plenty of times. But to find a yes, often you have to get past hearing no.
This is a lesson I remember today.
The facts:
- I didn’t get into the finalist round in the 2012 I Am Intrepid Contest. If I’d have gotten 300 more votes, my entry would have gotten into the top 10. Maybe if I had a few more weeks to campaign or if I’d gotten my link on TV (yes, I tried that), that might have helped, too.
- My work isn’t going to be read by awesome travel writer, Pauline Frommer. That’s disappointing, of course.
- I appreciate all who voted and who encouraged friends to vote for my entry, too. We got to 212!
- I am grateful that Mike Corey picked my entry to highlight in the fourth week of the contest. I don’t think I’ll get over him reading my story.
I didn’t get what I wanted this time exactly, but I look at it this way: it’s one no closer to a yes.
Congratulations to the I Am Intrepid contest finalists! I’m rooting for Jenny Marsden, fellow poet with a great and moving entry!
Related reads:
- This is my Web Gem! (sarahlynnpablo.com)
- I Want Pauline Frommer to Read My Work! A Trip Around The World Doesn’t Sound Bad Either! Vote by June 5! (sarahlynnpablo.com)
Oh yes, the no’s are freqently in the life of a writer. That’s okay, Just keep on writing and doing what you’re doing. I say to you, a resounding…. YES!
Thank you, RW
See, I got your YES!
Just keep on going!
Thanks, dckatya!
Just keep swimming!
Fact: Something amazing and unexpected will come your way, I just know it. And then you will blog about it. And then we will IM for an hour about how amazing and unexpected that something is.
Yes! Just like that last time something amazing and unexpected happened! hehe Thank you, amgapuz